Anuskatzz talks about love Gentle whisper

00:00:13: The problem is that I also can't tell everything in just one video.

00:00:20: I think i have to split it as well, but this was at first the basic... ...I can tell you about love and This Is a basic of Everything what You Have To Work on.

00:00:37: so At First Always work On Yourself.

00:00:43: Don't look away from you, never look away.

00:00:49: Take with all the bad and good stuff because it is so important that you learn what happened in your life not by fighting more or getting something out of love again.

00:01:12: Love!

00:01:17: Love is such an intense and crazy word.

00:01:23: And love means so much that you even could find words to describe what love can be.

00:01:39: since my existence of this earth I felt love in different ways, i get different emotions.

00:01:51: I had a rollercoaster of love, but i can tell you what I learned till now and this don't mean forever.

00:02:04: But for now is that Love Is the best addiction You Can have.

00:02:11: Because when do something with love?

00:02:17: I am pretty sure That you get love back!

00:02:25: when you share it with the right people.

00:02:33: For me love means so much that I couldn't put everything in just one bubble and let it there, i am pretty sure even negative aspects of love could bring closer to your personal idea what love can be.

00:02:58: And this I don't mean in a bad way.

00:03:03: I mean it in the good way because you only can grow with love.

00:03:10: and We have one big problem.

00:03:14: A lot of people have just won big problems.

00:03:17: They Can't Love Theirselves Because they don't know what that means to love their selves.

00:03:32: When you love yourself, it's an anonymous path to have-to go.

00:03:39: To find the freedom in your self... ...to work on everything what you need.. ..to share Love.... ..to take Love..... ..to feel Love....... ..to be a Love and to take Love.

00:03:54: at this amazing, AMAZING emotion you could get in life!

00:04:05: For me, to find love I needed to learn to love myself.

00:04:12: And i already have to tell you that am very blessed.

00:04:17: my full past till now because had like very negative aspects and a lot of hard parts in life don't like to look back because I feel sad and angry about it, but you need to open the door and go through them.

00:04:41: To find somehow in yourself... ...the love You NEED TO PROCESS AND DON'T GIVE UP So!

00:04:54: The first thing i learned very very early was when I give to somebody love I get love most of the time back because when you have to write people around, they will take your life.

00:05:14: They put it in their own energy and then we'll throw that bag too.

00:05:19: And this is amazing!

00:05:21: Because When The People Come and give you a lot as well You can feel everywhere It does a lot.

00:05:32: But Then you also have to take this love and have to accept it.

00:05:38: This is a really big point, You Have To Accept Love!

00:05:45: So think about the fact that YOU are not able TO TAKE THE LOVE FROM OTHER PEOPLE.

00:05:54: DEEP INTO YOUR HEART Because you can't because you don´t want to because you have no self-confidence that you take this love seriously and let it in there.

00:06:08: So start with yourself to learn how you could take love from others, just take it feel it and have inside of your heart.

00:06:19: even when is something so weird for you Learn It!

00:06:26: And This Is Something Nobody Can Tell You.

00:06:29: What Is The Right Way For It?

00:06:31: Because you have the key to your heart in your hands, nobody else.

00:06:38: So when somebody is coming and putting just poison on you And use your love and take it as a vampire!

00:06:47: And suck it out of your heart that you feel so unloved at the end!

00:06:54: Isolate yourself from this behave Don't Take That Shit Leave It And when you are, know that you can change the person who do this to you.

00:07:08: Then you have to do it and you have teach him!

00:07:13: You don't teach with anger but love.

00:07:17: This is a best part But sometimes people dont learn.

00:07:23: so get away from them Get Away From Them & Learn Again how you can love yourself, because everything have to be in the right balance.

00:07:39: Everything what you get and what you give.

00:07:43: so think about that right balance of Love You need In your life.

00:07:48: maybe write it down What means Love To You?

00:07:52: Which people Give You Love And which People Don't.

00:07:56: Why The People don't Give You love Why they do and then you figure out what exactly?

00:08:02: You need and don't need to con.

00:08:06: get the love What you need to stay self-confidence, and stay in a very very nice way to love yourself.

00:08:16: And This is always progression At some days.

00:08:21: You don't feel good, and this is absolutely clear than love.

00:08:26: Don't feel that way like the day before.

00:08:29: But then sleep over and next they will come, look how you can solve your energy to solve love.

00:08:40: Look if go outside for a nice walk in the sun standing in snow screaming out loud make some sports.

00:08:50: Look what you need to do, To have the amazing feeling of love in you.

00:08:55: And when we have a partner look What both can make this love even stronger.

00:09:02: and there We are at very important part Boundaries.

00:09:10: You can be strong together but When your own boundaries and when Your partner has some boundaries Love could get destroyed.

00:09:23: This is the crazy and sane part of love because when you are able to love, You also are ABLE TO GET HURT!

00:09:34: And this why a lot people don't take Love serious Because they DON'T want to get hurt but THIS IS THE PASS YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH.

00:09:43: This an enormous fact that you have to be AWOLF because LOVE ISN'T NOT JUST LOVE.

00:09:51: Love is hurtful and you need to protect love in the way that you are happy.

00:10:00: So think about this fact, You have a partner!

00:10:03: You both have boundaries and don't fit together no matter what.

00:10:10: And then comes an amazing feeling at first.

00:10:14: It's the feeling of being loved and I see a lot of crazy relationships where the people in their beginning going so crazy because they think that there are SO MUCH in love.

00:10:28: And don't even know what love between both means, but just try to take this love together somehow or other way because it feels good and everyone is addicted to love!

00:10:44: So why not using it?

00:10:47: At some point you wake up And you see what is inside of YOU and what does the symbiosis make to the partner, AND WHAT IS INSIDE THE PARTNER.

00:10:59: When the puzzle doesn't fit anymore... ...you have different steps to go!

00:11:05: You can leave it or work on IT.

00:11:09: The MOST PROBLEM OF THE PEOPLE IS THAT THEY TRY TO WORK ON IT EVEN IF THEY CAN, BECAUSE THEY DON'T LOVE YOURSELF.

00:11:19: So I can tell you, i was in a lot of monogram relationships.

00:11:30: Not a lot if you but If You where I learned very early that personal.

00:11:38: for me Monogramme isn't the way I feel forever loved and can share and give love.

00:11:47: because let us be honest at somehow when you don't work with each other, it gets fucking boring.

00:12:04: Let us think about the fact that all of people on this world have an instinct to eat because otherwise we would die and this is the most important part Making love, because otherwise we would die.

00:12:35: When nobody get intimacy with somebody else our species on this earth wouldn't exist anymore.

00:12:45: and there we are the same as animals Because it's somehow we are animals And This is a natural instinct like eating and sleeping and like breathing, so don't think that this is a point you can deny.

00:13:06: And I felt it very early in every relationship I had.

00:13:12: I have amazing partners and I've had like f*****g partners.

00:13:16: but i can tell one thing at some.

00:13:19: how gets boring because your nature to share love.

00:13:27: And even if the people don't say, I have that feeling too.

00:13:32: It is in us and for sure you can take this feeling as a woman and put it on a child and can say okay This Is My Child and i love it Even More As my Relationship.

00:13:46: Is This My Everything?

00:13:48: I Don't Need Anything Anymore But This Not The Point For Guys.

00:13:53: So Now I Speak About In fact, you will maybe let me burn in hell but I don't care.

00:14:05: We do not need to think that we women are just the brain of earth.

00:14:16: Guys are born to make babies and their brains is not every time upstairs here!

00:14:31: Their brains is also downstairs.

00:14:37: And maybe you say no, this isn't true!

00:14:40: I have somebody who's so different... Sorry This a natural instinct and this ISN'T the truth.

00:14:52: So live with this fact and make best out of it.

00:14:57: That means to work on yourself.

00:15:01: For sure some of you don´t even think about sharing love, because why you need to share a love?

00:15:10: You have this one and only person in your life.

00:15:16: But I'm pretty sure for all the grown-ups already they know deep inside their selves what i am talking about.

00:15:28: And we women are not different.

00:15:33: We also Have NOT THIS brain!

00:15:36: WE ALSO HAVE THIS YEAR where at some how a baby have to come in.

00:15:42: It is our natural instinct and we fight for it, not even when we want too.

00:15:49: but this something that happenin' our nature And We couldn't do anything about it.

00:15:56: So don´t deny the fact.

00:16:00: Think about carefully then start work on you.

00:16:03: Start what kind of relationship u like.

00:16:11: Very very important theme as well.

00:16:15: I am for myself.

00:16:21: think it doesn't matter Which person you like and fell in love?

00:16:28: It doesn't Matter how this Person looks, it Doesn't matter if its from the same Generation or a guy, if it's gay.

00:16:46: If he trance... Or whatever.

00:16:48: this is on.

00:16:49: the world just take when its stand in front of you and feel love.

00:16:58: Love In A Way You Never Expected To Feel.

00:17:04: And for sure sometimes you change!

00:17:09: That Is The Beauty About Love.

00:17:11: You don't need to put you in this one bubble and there, you have to stay.

00:17:15: Absolutely not!

00:17:17: Your path will change.

00:17:19: your interaction with change...your emotions will change And you'll go through a lot of different ways where you feel maybe different after as well.

00:17:39: So take the changes.

00:17:41: Don´t fight against it.

00:17:43: Don't think that it have to be important, That you just love this one prototype the society give-to-you.

00:17:54: You can do this!

00:17:56: This is absolutely fine.

00:17:59: I am not getting against this... ...You Just need To Have The Freedom To Do What You Like To Do That You Feel Love.

00:18:12: Because Love Is so important for this life and it's a rule.

00:18:19: It is the thing what makes us working, but as stand up every day again and again love Is that passion we need to fulfill our lives in very important way?

00:18:39: And then it has nothing wrong about share it!

00:18:42: It is nothing wrong to compare it, and... ...it's just nothing wrong for you because right now the most.

00:18:56: And there we are at a very important point out of my life!

00:19:02: Maybe you don't know that or maybe you do.

00:19:05: I am not any more open about any monogram relationship at all.

00:19:13: Because I learned for me that i am addicted to love and even more, I'm addicted to share love.

00:19:25: Because this addiction makes my happy!

00:19:29: When my batteries are low... ...I could make them even stronger when I share LOVE.

00:19:48: way of kissing somebody, I share love in a form from emotion.

00:19:57: I play with...I Share Love In My Project Dirty Dreads where i have A lot Of People Who Come To Us And They Go Through This Crazy Intense Ritual Where I Show Them How Beautiful Photo Shootings Can Be to take some self-care and some self love.

00:20:21: And to have a lot energy, feeling good to go through this as well with the medium film because pictures are nice our movies even better to express how amazing you look just Because You Are The Way You Are!

00:20:45: I also like to share love with people I like.

00:20:54: And not just about saying something, i share it because they feel it and can learn from it.

00:21:05: maybe they feel good out of this and put in their life.

00:21:13: Because for me... It doesn't matter what you do ultimative explorer of love.

00:21:23: You can use it, but you also throw away when I try to give it to you and work with it!

00:21:30: And i'm pretty sure that you take at somehow now in front of the camera as well because a very important fact is that you have to think about love all the time.

00:21:50: Why you feel at that moment not a much love?

00:21:55: why do you feel this moments too much love, why can't let go from this feeling?

00:22:01: what happens when your are cant give love away ?

00:22:05: why don´t able to love yourself?

00:22:08: ,what especially happened with you?

00:22:10: when try to give somebody love and they dont take it?

00:22:16: You have to be careful with all the knowledge you have.

00:22:29: And this is not in a wrong way, that you don't take it away and show it to everybody!

00:22:46: Get.

00:22:47: and this is what happened when I don't feel the love And i have to put it away from you because You, don't get.

00:22:54: The energy?

00:22:55: I Have especially for you and since a moment i started To share love i can tell you i gone through A lot Through positive and negative ways and i never ever would regret anything from all of this.

00:23:23: These are all actions.

00:23:24: what happen to be that I think about my reaction, That i think About My Way Of Loving ,that I know exactly What I like To Share And What Not and that I'm more & More Able To Stand Up For Myself and Say Okay!

00:23:40: I Like It or okay not with me because When you are sharing love, there's a lot of problems.

00:23:50: The biggest problem is that people come and put your in the box!

00:23:54: So you're not monogam, what then?

00:24:05: You have to think about all the facts when people feel different and that the people don't have any glue because they don't think about it clearly.

00:24:20: They don't use love as this amazing weapon, It could be their youth.

00:24:25: love is something so boring And something's so useless That I forget how Amazing The energy from Love Could Be?

00:24:37: And there you Have to learn to stand up for yourself.

00:24:41: So before you start, to share love Start To Love Yourself and then start in tiny Tiny-Tiny Steps to figure out what it could be?

00:24:57: To break your own border And to explore love In a way You Never Explored Before!

00:25:05: Then Something Amazing Could Happen When You Get Hurt And this will happen a lot.

00:25:15: Don't give up!

00:25:17: When you one time have this enormous feeling of love in your hand, see how the progression could be.

00:25:29: don't give-up because ONE PERSON is DON'T TAKING CARE OF IT or ONE ACTION.

00:25:36: DON'T take care of it.

00:25:38: Don't give up.

00:25:39: Never Give Up for Love because love is so important and you will find it when you search for it, And You Will Share It When You Do With The Right Amount Of Respect.

00:25:52: This Is Also Very Important Part.

00:25:56: Respect Because I Know Exactly Why YOU Stopped To Love Because You Don't Get Enough Respect For It.

00:26:08: Someone destroyed the feeling you had for the love you gave.

00:26:15: Doesn't matter if it's a person, an art or your self-confidence... For whatever!

00:26:24: Something was happening that put respect away.

00:26:34: Learn to love yourself and then learn when people don't respect what they do When stuff happened without respect, say no.

00:26:44: Not with me!

00:26:46: I need respect that i can love and like to explore love.

00:26:52: And when...I don't get treated Like.

00:26:55: I want you To open myself for this intense and amazing feeling Then shut the up Because..when YOU can't respect yourself.

00:27:09: And when nobody else can respect you, stop with this.

00:27:14: love is important and You have to treat it with respect.

00:27:18: everybody else has to treat It with respect.

00:27:20: and then somebody don't retreat This risk-respect.

00:27:23: Then tell them maybe Maybe you Have To Learn To Love Yourself That You Can Treat This Moment With Respect?

00:27:32: And...this Is A Crazy Part I have to go all the time through, that you need to stand up for yourself.

00:27:43: To get a right respect of what you do.

00:27:46: That don't feel discomfort because You dont' get respect For it.

00:27:53: And when you Don't Get Respect For It Don't Give Up.

00:27:56: Learn to take self confidence.

00:27:58: learn to Stand up for Yourself and then Don't give a shit and just walk away and share love with somebody who is able to share it as well.

00:28:12: And you can be a teacher, this absolutely no joke!

00:28:17: You need to become a teacher because when are already few steps ahead about the topic what Love means then YOU will get SOMEBODY also through point that person, the art or whatever you express with your love.

00:28:41: Grow as well!

00:28:45: Be a teacher who is teaching Love in good and respectful way.

00:28:52: be the teacher Who stand there and explain what you explored about Love?

00:29:00: And why this Is Good for You ?

00:29:02: And don't be The Teacher who say you have to do it like This.

00:29:07: Everyone have a different story, everyone has a different feeling.

00:29:13: Just tell what you met and give some idea to the person or art.

00:29:28: then let it grow because when then something amazing could happen and not just for the feeling of your body as well, for the feelings in mind because love starts here.

00:29:54: Love also starts there.

00:29:56: And I am sure when you treat love with a right respect When we tell people our story how love can be You can give them hope and you could give them respect that they will treat it as well in the way It need to be treated To overcome the borders, And to explore love In the full intensity.

00:30:40: At some point you will get love back.

00:30:43: And then put it in your heart for also very bad times.

00:30:49: So when are really, really sad and just feel not at all down to earth Think about the opportunity to have there where you shared the love Where got so much back.

00:31:03: Then stand up Open your heart Take this amazing, amazing journey of love and use it as a powerful an amazing weapon to give Love As well To yourself.

00:31:22: And two others in the amazing balance where you could make your life even more better and meaningful.

00:31:35: Yeah I would say i could write book.

00:31:42: Thank you for listening.

00:31:45: This was the first point of love!

00:31:48: Let me know if you liked it.